ultimately i think kindness is the most radical thing you can do with your pain and your anger. it’s like, you take everything awful that’s ever been done to you, and you throw it back in the world’s teeth, and you say no, fuck you, i’m not going to take this. you say this is unacceptable. you say that shit stops with me.
humans are fucking terrible and this awful world we live in will fucking kill you but if you are kind, if you are brave and clever and try really hard, you can defy it. you can impose on this bleak and monstrous structure something beautiful. even if it’s temporary. even if it doesn’t heal anything inside you that’s been hurt.
i’m gonna sleep and i’m gonna wake up and i swear by everything in this deadly horrible universe i’m gonna make someone happy.
i’ve seen a number of comments and tags where people feel that they must swallow or repress their anger in order to engage in kindness. that is not at all what i am recommending here. radical kindness is an expression of anger. it is not passive. it is not repressive. it does not require you, in any way, to forgive those that have fucked you up. it does not require you to be quiet.
it just requires that you be kind. viciously. vengefully. you fight back. you plant flowers. give to charity. play games. pet someone’s dog. scream into the dark. paint and write and dance, tell jokes, sing songs, bake cookies. you have been hurt and you don’t have to deny that hurt. you just have to recognize it in other people, and take their hand, and say: no more. enough. fuck this. no more.
have a cookie.
i will say this again: we are all going to die. the universe is enormous and almost entirely empty. to be kind to each other is the most incredible act of defiance against the dark that i can imagine.
it just requires that you be kind. viciously. vengefully.
Bolding for emphasis. Because I am angry at the state of the world right now, so very angry. And I am trying to channel that anger into helpful, kind actions.
And here I thought a perfect post didn’t exist.
Love and hate are two sides of the same coin. Your anger can fuel your hate… or it can be the power behind your love.
Love isn’t passive. It is active. Kindness is the expression of love. Love begins because you are angered by someone else’s hate, you see them hurting others and realize that it’s not fair, and that things need to get better.
So you do it yourself. In whatever small ways you can.
The sun is a burning ball of energy that would swallow our planet whole, but instead offers us life and warmth. That is the universe’s expression of love.
Be a blazing sun in a world of darkness. Defy the shadows by casting arrows of light and warmth into a cold and bleak void. Love what’s dead back to life.
The darkness seems strong, but it is weak. All it takes is a candle flame to set it back on its heels. Be a fucking sun, and burn the shadows away.